One of my clients, whose ex-girlfriend recently broke up with him, asked me the following question:
I think I still love her, but is this love or just emotional dependency? Many times I ask myself if falling in love comes from the wounded self because (for me at least) it feels as if I cant live without the other person. When I give love from the heart I don’t expect anything back, but when I fall in love I think this is a different energy.