In the 37 years that I have been counseling couples, I have discovered that there are only a few issues that are true relationship deal-breakers. Many of the issues that tear relationships apart are not actual deal-breakers. Rather, most divorces and breakups are the result of one or both partners unwillingness to learn from the conflicts that exist in all primary relationships. But some conflicts and differences are actual deal-breakers.
Seven Steps To Heal A Broken Heart
When a relationship ends, you might think the world is over! But you can heal a broken heart and move on to better things. Here’s how to cope with breaking up….
To End or Not to End Your Relationship
Vanessa, 30 years old, is struggling with whether or not to end her six-year marriage. The answer is not at all clear to her.
Vanessa and Jon have a good marriage. They are kind and caring with each other. They enjoy many of the same things. So why is Vanessa in such turmoil over whether to stay or leave?
Ending Relationships Gracefully
In my counseling practice, I often hear the question, How do I end a relationship without hurting someones feelings? Whether its a romantic relationship or a friendship, ending it gracefully is generally a challenge.
The problem arises because so many people see it as a reflection of their worth when someone doesnt want to be with them. If I was good enough, this person would want to be with me, so there must be something wrong with me.
Hatred: The Byproduct of a Bad Break Up
Break ups can be very bitter experiences. This article offers reasons to move past any hatred felt toward an ex and move forward with life. Though it is much easier said than done, a positive attitude is needed to get through each day.
The Rebound: An Emotional Hazard
This article offers reasons why dating on the rebound is hardly ever a good idea. The best thing to do when getting over an ex is to take time to yourself to heal and become an individual person again.
4 Steps to Help Heal a Broken Heart
This article offers tips on how to move past a bad relationship. Though a broken heart is hard to deal with, moving on with life is essential for healing. Broken hearts take time to be mended.