Understanding what you don’t want will help you ‘birth’ more clarity about what you do want and your ‘birthed’ clarity becomes your new, clear desire! Notice too, how you feel when you get clear about something. It feels good when we say, “Oh! That’s exactly what I’d like!” This new clarity has now become your desire and that is the first step to manifesting your ideal mate. In my book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What you Want and Less of What You Don’t, I talk about the three step process for Deliberate Attraction. The first step is being able to identify your desire. Now you know how to use the contrast to do just that!
What to Do When Your Spouse or Your Friends are Negative?
First of all, I’d like you to remember that it takes two people to argue or fight and you always have a choice about what you choose to talk about. When you are with your mate, or friend or child and they are complaining about something they don’t like or telling you how much their life isn’t working in some respect, you always have two choices:
A Minute of Deliberate Attraction is better than None.
Definition of the Law of Attraction: I attract to myself, whatever I give my focus, attention, or energy to; whether wanted or unwanted.
Believing is the Absence of Doubt
For example, if your desire is to attract your ideal client, or your ideal relationship, then you could ask yourself: “Is there anyone on the planet who has attracted their ideal client?”
Yes, there are millions of people on the planet who have attracted their ideal clients.
NOW THIS FEELS POSSIBLE!
How do I Know if I’m Getting any of This Law of Attraction Stuff?
To help you gauge where you’re at in the mastery of Law of Attraction, I’ve compiled a list of seven sure-fire ways to tell if YOU are joining the thousands of people who really are mastering this stuff.
How to Attract More Into Your Life:3 Things You Can Do–Right Now
I attract to myself, whatever I give my focus, attention, or energy to; whether wanted or unwanted.
The Law of Attraction is an obedient law. Understanding that, we want to become more deliberate offer-ers of the vibes that we are emitting.
Using the Law of Attraction to Increase Our Abundance:
How Can I Tell What Vibes I’m Sending Out?
Until you learn to use the Law of Attraction in a deliberate way, most of the time you are not aware that you are attracting into your life-more of-whatever you are giving your focus, attention, and energy to. This is referred to as non-deliberate attraction. It can be described in a 4-step cycle:
An Example Of Allowing A Desire To Arrive On Its Own
Allowing is truly letting the Law of Attraction bring your desire into your sphere in its own time, place and manner.
Release Resistance
A true story: Allow the Universe to give you what you desire – release the resistance.
What is the Universal Law of Attraction?
The Universal Law of Attraction states: “We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to–whether wanted or unwanted.”
Use the Law of Attraction to Build Your Business
Each time you hear yourself make a Declarative Statement that does not serve you, simply restate it and offer a better mood or feeling. Here is a quick way to turn a negative statement into a positive Declarative Statement.
Simply ask yourself: “So, what do I want?”